Bad Company
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The article "Bad Company" is about family, it has been released by Nilesh Gore.
|| Bad Companionship / Company. ||
By Nilesh Gore – ng411002@rediffmail.Com
Here we will come to know who are the most responsible person to
make your child an addicted perosn & failure.
In general we see kids who are addicted of tobacco , drinking,
smoking, etc. addicitons are the symbols of unhealthy
personality. kids adopts addicitons cause of a] Stress, B]
Depression.
C] repression. (form anything) When a kid feels one
of these or simliar of these he wants to come out form the
situations. In many countries – consuming and smoking are the
accepted nroms of getting happiness. At first when a kid smoke
or drink - he does not get any pleasant expreience / relief /
happiness. But peoples around him makes him guess so.
Over a
period of a time he develops & adopts the habit / adidction.
In
a survey it is found that kids gvies similar expressions on the
question “why you smoke / drink etc.? ” or ”what and how you feel
after / while consuming or smoking ?
“ These expressions are a] I
get mental peace, b] I guess more confident and aggressive, c] it
is good for my tummy & helps in latrine, d] It is full of pride
& sign of growing boy e] it removes the loneliness, anger,
depression.
But this is all away form fact & just a self-deceit.
In the parental aspect when the parents came to know about their
kid’s addictions / bad habits ; the (99.9% normal reaction )
parents says “ (1) He has bad Company”, “(2)He has bad friends”
etc. But in reality it fiction and fact is diffreent.
Yes, Fact
is different. Form the beginning / for your cihld born he has
only company and this is you, The parent. He / she got your
company for really first day. Not getting the good company form
parents is the main reason to raise new issues in the life of
a kid. Confidence and every thing which requires in social life
: he gets it form the home (your company).
But what Exactly
happens by which they get mentally imbalanced & cause addiction
/ bad habits ? well, the reasons are. A] being our self
(parents) indiscilpine & teaching / imposing discipline to kids
B] Pressure to follow the rules, and discouragement.
C] Our self
(parents) addicted and not giving sufficient time to the kids D]
Not allowing kids to express eomtions & needs.
Not understanding
the kids E] Not giving love & affection at the expectation level
of kids F] Improper / Imbalanced mutual understanding and
difference of opinion amnog parents. G] Economical isuses in
family and divorce. These are the main reasons by which kids
gets influenced and affected. By the nature of law everybody
wants to forget the bad / troubling events in life and to get
relief kids do addiction just to get so called happiness and he
develops inferiority complex that he has chance to get happy
form addiction(s) (which he never gets). To do addictions he
requires money and to earn / grab that money he creates more
problems.
Basically in these kids – confidence level gets low and low,
reduces the success rate, develops the negative thoughts and bad
results are keep on growing.
Any one can predict the ftuure of
such kids( and you also know the beginning point). Getting
escape form addiction is relaly hard thing, fast thing is to
prevent them form addiction before they starts. We bring them on
the erath so its only parents responsibility & duty to make
child successful by providing right mind & body needs.
Just like
a kite, a thread helps kite to reach top most place in the sky ;
Similarly we are (thread) in parent-child relationship. What if
you losoe / cut the thread…… ? we have no rights to raise
question and to say my son / daughter has bad company.
Nilesh Gore.
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